Member Code of Conduct
Safe. Inclusive. Consent-forward. Unlock Your Play™.
Membership at The Shop means you agree to the rules below. They’re simple, direct, and enforced. Violations can result in removal without refund.
1) Consent Is Mandatory
- Ask first. Consent must be enthusiastic, informed, and ongoing.
- No answer or hesitation = no consent.
- Stop immediately if asked. Zero debate.
2) Respect Boundaries
- Personal, physical, emotional boundaries are non-negotiable.
- Use agreed safe words/signals; honor them instantly.
- Follow Safer Space Monitor (SSM) and staff directions at all times.
3) Zero Harassment. Zero Discrimination.
- Zero harassment, for any reason, period. Racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, ageism, and body-shaming are forbidden.
- Use people’s stated names and pronouns. If unsure, ask politely for clarity.
4) Privacy & Confidentiality
- What happens at The Shop stays at The Shop.
- No photos/videos/recordings without explicit permission from everyone in frame and from staff where required.
- Do not share member identities or details without their consent.
5) Play Responsibly
- Negotiate scenes clearly; know limits and health needs.
- Use barriers and hygiene best practices where applicable.
- Clean up and reset equipment after use; report any issues to staff.
6) Substance Policy
- No illegal drugs on premises.
- Alcohol is permitted within venue rules; intoxication is not consent.
- Staff may remove anyone impaired or unsafe to self/others.
7) Respect the Space & Staff
- Use the venue as intended; don’t block paths or exits.
- Follow posted room guidelines and equipment rules.
- Staff decisions are final. Zero back-and-forth onsite.
Consequences:
Violations may result in a warning, pause of play, removal from the event, suspension, or permanent loss of membership.
Report a Concern (See Something, Say Something)
If something feels off, tell an SSM or staff immediately. You can also follow up by email at hello@bodyshoppittsburgh.com.
By activating or renewing your membership, you acknowledge you’ve read, understand, and agree to this Code of Conduct.
Last updated: September 15, 2025