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3+ LOOKING FOR A THIRD
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3+ LOOKING FOR A THIRD

Friday Sep 11 9pm-2am
venue The Shop Pittsburgh
host thebodyshop
412-690-0699
hello@bodyshopclubs.com

Singles + Couples Triads + Polycules Consent-forward

3+

Looking for a Third

Two people build a connection. Three, four, or more build something entirely their own.

A social night for singles, couples, triads, polycules, and people open to connection beyond two.

Your connection. Your terms. Your pace.

3+ (Looking for a Third) is not simply a couples night with space left over for someone else. It is intentionally built for people exploring chemistry, connection, and relationship structures involving more than two people.

Some people arrive knowing exactly what they want. Others are still figuring out what fits. Both belong here. The goal is not to force a match. It is to create a room where honest conversations can start without anyone having to explain why more feels right for them.

This Night Is for You

  • Couples: Meet someone who adds real chemistry, personality, and possibility to the connection.
  • Singles: Meet couples and other singles who understand that chemistry has to work in every direction.
  • Triads and polycules: Connect with others who already understand that compatibility matters more than headcount.
  • The curious: Come meet people, ask questions, and see what feels right before deciding anything.

What You Will Find

  • People looking for fit: Not placeholders, accessories, or numbers. Real people with their own interests and boundaries.
  • Clearer conversations: The theme makes it easier to talk honestly about what you want and what you do not.
  • Room to take your time: Mingle, lounge, dance, observe, or keep the night completely social.
  • Consent-forward culture: Interest is not entitlement. Every person gets an equal voice in what happens next.

Nobody Is the Extra

Singles are not additions to someone else’s relationship. Couples are not interchangeable packages. Every person enters the room with equal agency, equal boundaries, and an equal right to decide what works for them.

Annual Membership Offer

Purchase an annual membership and receive complimentary tickets to this event.

View Membership Options

Dress, Communication, and Consent

The Shop is body-positive and judgment-free. Dress conservatively, provocatively, or anywhere in between. Choose what makes you feel confident and comfortable.

Participation in every conversation, interaction, and activity is voluntary. Ask clearly. Communicate honestly. Respect every answer without pressure or negotiation.

Bring the version of yourself that knows what you want. Bring the version that is still figuring it out. Either way, come ready to meet people where they actually are.

More people. More possibilities. Better communication.

Unlock Your Play™
First Time Guide

First time at The Shop?

Arrive early, learn the flow, and move at your pace. Connection and passion meet when comfort comes first.

Not a member, yet?

Zero pressure. Zero obligation. 100% your pace.

Arrive 30 minutes before opening

First visit after approval: arrive early for a quick tour and orientation. Meet the team, learn the space, and start the night confident and comfortable.

Quick tour
Consent basics
Q and A
Tip: Bring a valid ID and arrive ready.

Clarity, Consent, Comfort

Everything is optional. Choices stay in your hands, from conversation to dancing to anything beyond.

  • Communicate clearly about interests and boundaries.
  • Consent is on-going, ask, receive, confirm.
  • Comfort first, yours and everyone else’s.

Clear communication is sexy. Say what is wanted. Respect what others want, or do not.

Safer Play Spaces™

Safety is not a sign on the wall. It is how the space is run, every night.

Enthusiastic and ongoing consent
Clear yes, clear zero, and room to change at any moment.
Inclusivity and respect
All genders welcome. Judgment stays outside.
Proactive education
Better information creates better experiences.
Accountability and safety
Hosts and monitors keep standards consistent.

Dress code

Dress to feel confident. Conservative or provocative is your call. Body-positive and judgment-free, with a few simple ground rules.

View dress code details

Support the freedom to explore

A proud Coalition Partner of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. Support the rights that protect alternative relationships and consensual adult communities.

Join NCSF ($25 per year)

Want free event tickets?

Volunteer and earn Shop Points that can be used for entry and membership discounts.

Apply to volunteer

Quick hits

  • Arrive 30 minutes early on the first visit
  • Consent required, always
  • Safer, inclusive environment
  • Dress to feel confident
  • Support NCSF if aligned
  • Volunteer to earn Shop Points
Ready when you are.
Play, Your Way™

The Body Shop is a Coalition Partner of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

If you enjoy the freedom to explore alternative relationship styles, would you mind joining NCSF to help?

click JoinNCSF.com to become a member, it's only $25 for the entire year!


Score event tickets!

The club offers current members an opportunity to volunteer at the club during events. If you like free things, give some consideration to helping out during an event and you'll earn enough Body Shop points for future events or membership!

Click here to apply as a volunteer!


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