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Find your people.

Real chemistry. Real connection.

Pittsburgh's private members social club for curious, open-minded people who know connection takes more than one shape.

Meet people. Make friends. Flirt. Dance. Explore ENM, kink, relationships, sexuality, and play around people who understand the conversation.

Start online. Attend when you're ready.

  • ENM + poly friendly
  • LGBTQ+ inclusive
  • Kink aware
  • Consent centered
  • 10 yearsin Pittsburgh
  • 1,500+active members
  • Members onlyage and identity verified
  • BYOBwith certified bartenders

A place to be curious out loud.

Relationships. Attraction. ENM. Poly. Kink. Sexuality. Friendship. Play.

Around people who already understand that there is more than one way to build a relationship, spend a Saturday night, or connect with another person.

Single, partnered, poly, queer, kinky, experienced, or still figuring it out. Start where you are.

Yes, there's more to explore.

The Shop includes social lounges, DJs and theme nights, kink-focused experiences, workshops, play spaces, and rooms designed for different kinds of connection.

Social lounges
Where most nights start. Sit down, talk, meet people.
Dance floor
DJs, theme nights, and glow lighting.
Themed rooms
Each one built for a different kind of connection, with its own mood.
Play spaces
There when the night goes that way.
Workshops
Kink, communication, technique, and questions answered out loud.
BYOB bar
Bring what you like to drink. RAMP certified bartenders check it in and pour.
The Shop main lounge Glow lighting on The Shop dance floor The Shop lobby and check-in area

See inside The Shop

Come together.

Maybe you have talked about meeting another couple. Maybe one of you is curious about kink. Maybe you're ready for a shared experience that gives you something new to talk about on the drive home.

At The Shop, couples meet people, make friends, flirt, dance, and figure out what belongs in their relationship together.

Your relationship. Your boundaries. Your night.

Exploring as a couple?

  • Stay a pair.

    Plenty of couples spend the entire night with each other.

  • Meet other couples.

    Social Plus nights are built for conversation and mingling.

  • Try something new.

    Kink Forward and Learn + Explore nights give you a shared first step.

Find your night.

Some nights are built around conversation. Some around kink. Some fill the building. Every one opens a different door into the same community.

  • Social PlusCome meet people. Conversation, mingling, music, and easy social energy.
  • Intentionally IntimateGive chemistry more room. Smaller crowds and closer conversation.
  • Kink ForwardExplore with intention. Kink, communication, consent, and technique.
  • Learn + ExploreStart with a question. Workshops, demonstrations, and approachable first steps.
  • Bigger NightStep into the energy. Music, movement, bigger crowds, and the full building.

Find your night

First night?

Come early. Get the tour. Take a look around. Pour a drink. Find a conversation.

Staff check you in, and every first-time visitor gets a tour of the building before settling in.

Your night can stay social, turn flirtier, or go somewhere new. You decide what belongs in it.

How the culture works.

Consent, privacy, and accountability are built into how the club runs, from the first profile step to the last song.

  • Clear consent

    Ask clearly. Listen closely. Respect every answer. Interest is not access.

  • Verified members

    Every member completes a consent orientation and an age and identity check before their first night. ID photos are deleted once verified.

  • Private by design

    Profiles are private and stay out of search engines. Identifying, photographing, or recording another member takes their clear permission. Read the code

  • Safer Play Spaces™

    Education, communication, and sexual-health resources, so choices are informed ones. How it works

Create your private profile.

Get connected to the community first, then choose when you want to walk through the door.

  1. Create your private profile

    Tell us a little about yourself and how you want to connect.

  2. Consent + identity verification

    A short consent orientation, then an age and identity check. Our team confirms it, usually within 24 to 48 hours.

  3. Explore the community

    Meet members online, browse the calendar, and come in when the right night shows up.

Somewhere in Pittsburgh, your people are already meeting.

Find your people. Play, Your Way™

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